Sister Mary vs Brother Perfect

A Super Happy Sunday💃💃💃💃💃💃💃💃
Hope you went to church 🤔
That's how I asked my neighbor what they taught oga could not remember 😅😅
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Today we would be talking about "Christian Realtionships, what to do and what not to"

Some christain relationships are like;

When I go offline you go offline😏
Unknown to you
you just went offline.
Because he went offline.🤫

Brother: Don't you think you should put your WhatsApp in last seen as mine to avoid disturbances
Sister: OK I will ( no body is disturbing her like dey disturb you oo)

Brother: Don't you think you should minimize your association with other guys? You are in a relationship.😘
Sister: True talk (deep down she is saying why me).

Brother :Make your status post limited
We are matured believers.
Bebe: Okay you are right.
Deep down her thought (chai so I can't upload my everyday pix ).

Brother: Say Hi to this and that person🤭
Sister:okay I will
(Even if she doesn't like those people,brother has spoken)🤐.


It a relationship not a seminar workshop of the saint.😒
You act this way thinking( in your good person thought) you know what's best for the other person. Some sisters play along because they like you but sooner or later they will burst out, by then don't be shocked🙄 you brought it upon yourself.😤


If she can't be herself because you are over protective of her and too careful in the relationship. You might end up losing both(that is you and your supposed wife).

That's why it's a "Relationship", for you Relate not to be an "O Yes Member"this is for you sisters.

Brothers don't act like a Statue who does not listen to advice.🙅

Being in a godly relationship doesn't need to be based on rules and regulations.

She is your partner and you are her partner.

Partnership is working together agreeing together.

Not one party detecting for the other.

Most sisters say I don't want to marry a pastor due to some factors they have seen or experienced.

Brothers losen up🏃🏃she loves you and will submit willing.She can't watch your image tanish just like that, She is a helpmate, she will help you. I'm not asking for much, just give her the podium to express herself then you will be amazed at the potential you just hid under the carpet😁

You confirmed it your self she is your life partner in terms of purpose and ministry then why the rules🧐😠

Sisters you too, why stay in a relationship that you are not able to express yourself freely, making you unhappy👀 Ejor, how long will you keep mumuring in silence? 

All he says is his plan,his purpose,how you should live what you should do, how you should pray, you must build intimacy with God. 

Good and fine then you lose intimacy with the lady God has given you. Oga shey it's the Bible you will marry abi God that brought a fine godly woman was sleeping, mtsheeeewwww😤

 

Please Wisdom is profitable to direct, let's be guided. I'll end with this Scripture:

 1 Corinthians:13:4-5

Love is very patient and kind, never jealous or envious, never boastful or proud,

never haughty or selfish or rude. Love does not demand its own way. It is not irritable or touchy. It does not hold grudges and will hardly even notice when others do it wrong.

© Iwuoha Pamela

Iwuoha Pamela Chinonso is a Nigerian, hails from Imo State.

She is the only girl in the midst of 3brothers.

Pamela is a French Education graduate from the University of Lagos.

She is a French tutor,Entrepreneur and CEO of Pamitha ovens, MD of Unique Forum.

She is also a Public speaker,Teens Coach, one time teens pastor and a Lover of God. Pamela loves meeting new people and impacting lives. She enjoys dancing and singing a lot.

Pamela is an extreme extrovert.

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Yours Sincerely,

Tamar ✍️