QUIT BEING A SHADOW.
Some days back I was in a discussion with my brother about the creative work one of his customers does for a living. The guy "simply" used wood, nails and thread to make artistic designs for interiors. It was wowing the day I saw it.
As we discussed , a thought popped in my mind and I casted it down immediately with a vow I had made to myself since my secondary school days.
I am sure you are familiar with the thought I am speaking of? It's the thought that comes to most ladies mind whenever they hear of, or meet a successful guy.
"Let him just marry me" "I hope he is not married" "Omo see big fish" ... Add yours to the list.
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It has eaten into the mindset of a lot of ladies , infact they are groomed that way even by their mothers.
It is very sad how that mentality has made a lot of ladies marry wrongly; become mentally crippled and overdependent.
Making them victims of various kinds of abuse and a liability all in pursuit of a talent to hide under.
Hey lady, quit being the shadow of a man because you are not! You are a real being also with talents and capability to make wealth.
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Men are not bank accounts and no one values a pest. You will agree with me that it's pretty easy to identify a pest. You don't have issues identifying a rat, do you?
See, relationships are healthier and mutually beneficial when both parties are both living a meaningful life.
Want to be treated like a queen? Then act as one.
Build a life!
Quit being a shadow!
© Titlope James
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Titlope James is an emotional intelligence coach and a certified youth life coach. She is a chartered accountant, human resource consultant, teacher, writer, speaker, author and singer.
She helps individuals make sense of their experiences and emotions so that they can live richer lives.
She has a podcast called the Emotions Plug whdfd she shares about Emotional Intelligence and personal development on a biweekly basis.
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Tamar 💓
Nice one Ma'am 👌👌
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